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Malaysia Part 12: In search of bound feet shoes

June 22, 2008 · 6 Comments

Back in London, I had been planning our Malaysian itinerary when something in the guidebook caught my eye:

“Wah Aik, 103 Jalan Kubu. Renowned for making silk shoes for bound feet. With foot binding no longer practised, the shoes are now lined up in the window as souvenirs, at a mere RM75 per pair.”

I hadn’t even left the country yet, but I already knew where to buy a present for my decorative shoe-collecting mother.

Monsieur and I had booked a car to take us to the airport just after lunch, so we had the morning to see a bit more of Melaka. Off we went down the street in search of shoes for foot-bound women. We went to the address given in the guide but the shop was boarded up. We then popped into a large shop with aisles of offerings to help one’s prayers at the Buddhist temple – fake money in bundles, cardboard platinum Amex cards, models of Mercedes cars… you name it. Anything that could possibly help you in the after-life was there,and we even got directions to Wah Aik’s new location at 56 Jalan Tokong.

Ever since childhood I’ve heard of foot-binding in China. Jung Chang’s book, Wild Swans, was the first to teach me how incredibly painful and smelly it was. Also worth reading is the novel by Lisa See, called Snow Flower and the Secret Fan , describing the life of a girl who must bind her feet to secure her future. Some say that binding women’s feet helped a woman to remain loyal to her husband because she could never run away, such was the excruciating pain of walking. Others say that tiny feet were a sign of beauty at that time, just as a 17 inch waist was desirable of Victorian women in England. In spite of knowing these basic facts, nothing could prepare me for how tiny the bound feet shoes are at Wah Aik’s. There, in a display window at the front of the shop, are a number of regular-sized slippers and shoes, below which sit rows of shoes that would better suit the feet of a large doll than a human being’s. The shoes are quite beautiful in their various colours of embroidered silk – the Emperor’s red, a soft chartreuse, turquoise, but at a mere 4 inches long, all I could think about was the crippled women who’d been subjected to such a terrible ritual. Honestly. Who comes up with these ridiculous concepts?

The shoemakers at Wah Aik’s were welcoming. They explained that not only did they sell these diminutive shoes to tourists; they also supplied them to the handful of foot-bound women still alive here in Malaysia. As we chose pairs of shoes to take home to our mothers I noticed a photocopy of a review from the Guide Routard stapled to the wall, indicating that the French must like visiting here, too. There you are, Monsieur, it wasn’t such a wild goose chase after all.

Mission accomplished, Monsieur and I now sought out the temples on Jalan Tokong, otherwise known as Temple Street. There were three to visit: Masjid Kampung Kling with a Mecca-green roof sloping like a pagoda’s but quite empty at this time of day; Sri Poyyatha Vinoyagar, with its ochre façade and Hindu statuary, but the one we really enjoyed was the Buddhist temple of Cheng Hoon, or Temple of the Merciful Cloud.

Here we were able to watch members of the local Chinese community pay their respects in a variety of ways. They burned rods of incense in clusters, held between their pressed palms as they bowed before the Goddess of Mercy, to whom the temple is dedicated, eventually leaving them to smoulder in a large, brass urn. Inside, the walls were panelled with dark wood. Offerings such as fresh flowers or fruit sat on ornate, carved altars, above which golden figures glistened in the gloom. Back outside, we watched, intrigued, as worshippers burned written prayers and fake money in a busy incinerator and could probably have wandered about there quite happily for another hour, just observing the rites of the temple’s visitors, but once again we had deadlines.

Back on Jonkers Street (also known as Jalan Hang Jebat) we wandered into The Geographer Café, just ever so slightly starving as there was practically nothing left in our tums, given that the fat-fest of the previous night hadn’t done much to fill us up and we hadn’t yet had breakfast. For hours now, we’d been existing on bottled water. In the humidity, this wasn’t really as hard as it sounds.

The Geographer is reputed to be quite a cool hang-out, but when we were there, it was hard to tell. The place, with its stacks of GEO and National Geographic magazines, all well-read with curled corners and tumbler-stained covers, felt just a bit tired, but the food was great. I took a brief break from the Asian scene, just for one meal, tucking into a delicious pasta tossed simply with olive oil, garlic and red chilli. Monsieur chose a piccante pizza as we sat in the open air, watching the world go by. Compared to the night before, it was almost disturbingly quiet. Perhaps all that line dancing had tired everyone out.

One of my (many) strangenesses is a love for tiny cars. I think the old Fiat cinquecento is a superb piece of design for urban living and, wherever I go in the world, I always find myself face-to-face with a little vehicle of some unusual appeal to me, and only me. Monsieur, being a man and French to boot, would never admit to liking little cars. He’d rather ogle a luxury sportscar, making me wonder if he’s headed for an early mid-life crisis, but reassuring in the fact that I know that at least he’s not suddenly producing an excess of oestrogen. Anyway, here is the little yellow car I fell for just before we left Melaka. It was parked just along the street from The Geographer and Monsieur had to pretend not to know me as I angled for just the right shot. I don’t desire much in this overly-materialistic world but my, how I would love a little yellow car like that.


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Epic Blogs 2: Christian Skoda, A nomad forever…

June 22, 2008 · 5 Comments

I first found Christian Skoda’s site, Nomad4ever, when researching some future travel plans. The name intrigued me. A nomad forever? I had to find out more. There, I discovered a man after my own heart; someone who believes there is more to life than the mythical 9 to 5 (more like 9am to 9pm, if you’re lucky) and then proves his convictions by throwing in the towel on a glowing rat race career in favour of a stress-free and contented lifestyle outside of Europe. Go, boy! is all I can say to that.
At the moment, Chris is living in Bali, but will probably pack up his ‘yurt’ to move elsewhere at some point. After all, he is a self-professed nomad, so staying in one place for the rest of his life would defeat the purpose of what he’s decided is the prozac-free way forward. Here are Chris’s responses to my Epic Blog questionnaire:
When/ why did you decide to take up blogging?
Previously internet applications and computers were part of my daily work life. So when I quit working in 02/2006 I spent more time on the internet discovering and trying out some fun things. I suddenly even had time to excessively play World of Warcraft. Running my own Guild in that Online Game with some 150 members, I was asked plenty of times to set up a website to coordinate guild events and to post guild news. So I began to create a very basic website with a standard html editor, but it was quite a pain to update it in a timely manner, without touching and messing up the whole thing over and over again. That was the time when I discovered blogs, which do that with ease via website templates. It was really like a positive challenge and I learned a lot in a very short time. So when the WoW addiction finally faded, I naturally looked for some substitute to get my newfound knowledge to a positive use. I first started a Blogger blog, but soon reached its limits and then finally switched to WordPress, which I use ever since.
How did you decide on the name for your blog?
My initial idea of living my life after my worklife was to move from country to country. Living a certain period of time in each to soak in different cultures, sceneries and lifestyles. I felt the world has too much to offer than staying in the same place for years and years until you die. So why not roam our planet and try out the ups and downs of various places myself? Like the old Nomadic tribes did and still do in some countries. Forever on the move instead of standing still – that was the basic idea and I simply wanted to write about my experiences on that path. I guess a few beer helped back then to get that idea into a unique shortcut.
Are there any aspects of your former working life that you miss?
Honestly – none! Today I’m completely free, I can do whatever I want, wake up whenever I want, go wherever I want. I can chose my friends and the people I hang out with simply based on compatibility and interest, whereas in my working life I had to deal with plenty of people I would have avoided, if I had a choice. My day now is only defined with what is good for me and I became much calmer, relaxter and less worried in the process. The discovery of the simple life, without luxury possessions made me more independent and learn to live a life without sorrows or serious worries. I can appreciate the little and beautiful things again, like an elephant-shaped cloud in the sky, a colorful insect landing on a flower nearby or the morning sounds of mooing cows on the meadow next to my place.
What makes you laugh?
Oh my – there are so many things. I have more than a dozen good laughs every day, maybe because I’m just a happy person? Seriously I enjoy good conversation, pulling each others legs, hearty or nasty jokes, a Karaoke song gone wrong, losing my way when driving and coming out somewhere completely different, getting wet from a sudden rain shower or simply laughing about my own clumsiness..
Which is the best blog you’ve read recently and why?
Hard to tell, there are so many out there! One blog I always come back to is maybe hobotraveler.com, which is by a guy who is on the road for the last 10 or so years and has visitied all but a few countries of our planet.
Would you consider publishing a book of your life?
I don’t think my life is that interesting to justify a book about it and then there is this old media dust which comes with it. So, definitely no.
If you found yourself stranded on a desert island with three people of your choice (alive or dead) who would they be?
Oha, you got questions! Let me see, one of my idols is for sure Lee Kuan Yew, the first PM of Singapore. He would be an endless source for interesting conversation and brain jogging. I’m quite sure though, that I would bore him to death, but what can you do on a lonely island, right? Oh yeah, we would need some women to have a chance for survival, no? Give me someone like Beyonce or Naomi Campbell and wow – that would be an interesting mix and a bubbly receipe for disaster! Okay, maybe exchange Naomi to someone like Hatshepsut, the queen of ancient Egypt, beauty and intelligence – what more can you want?
If you were visiting Bali for the first time, what would you recommend doing or avoiding?
Get out of Kuta as soon as possible and take your time to explore the natural beauty of this island. Mountains or lonely beaches, volcanoes, endless rice fields, waterfalls and hot springs – there is so much to see to feel the power of nature. Soak up the sun, inhale the serenity, trek the jungles and leave the tourist crowds behind!
After Bali, where would you like to live next?
Nothing is settled yet. But Vietnam and the Philippines are currently strong contenders for the next long-term destination.
Where is your favourite place on the planet?
I haven’t found *that* favorite place yet. There are many nice places out there and no place is perfect. There is a book “1001 places to see before you die” and it gives a great overview of beautiful spots on our planet. I hope I can make it around to more than a few of them and I will be more than happy. But as I just come to think about it: a crystal-blue ocean close by would be great. A white, powdery beach even better. I learned to love the sea over the last couple of years (being born a land rat), so yeah, some place like that with some basic infrastructure like electricity and internet would ensure it being a top spot in my heart.
What has been your proudest moment?
Probably sending out that farewell e-mail to my ex-colleagues and walking out the door – a free man!
If there are three pieces of life advice you could give to a banker caught in the current credit crunch, what would they be?
The banker probably doesn’t have to worry too much, compared to his customers. He anyway plays only with monopoly money and is less affected himself by economic downturns. In general I would recommend not to worry too much, money isn’t everything, a job is just that – a job and you can survive anywhere on this planet. People do that every day, with less and being happier. So why not overthink your current life and decide what can you change now for a better you?
What’s on your bedside table?
Bedside table? What is a bedside table? ;-)
Epic note to reader:
We all know how heated the comments exchange can be on contentious blogs. If you really want to see how ridiculous they can get, read Chris’s blog about his New Year’s Eve 2007.

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